How do I stop being angry and hitting my children?

How do I stop being angry and hitting my children? . Children's Behaviour . I am a mother of two tiring children, and we live in a multi-family home. I hear words from those around us about how my children are mischievous. I suffer from severe anger to the point that I hit them hard. I have tried many times to leave this and not succeeded. I hold myself back for a day or two, then I return to it, and I regret hitting them and cry. What is your counsel for me? . Severe hitting is harmful in raising children and does not lead to the solution of any problem. On the contrary, things get worse: the child either rebels and becomes harsh and aggressive, or becomes weak and broken, exposed to harm without pushing it away. The mother is love, gentleness, firmness, and safety. With hitting, the child loses safety and mercy. As for mischief from children, do not pay attention to what others say to you. Children by their nature play and run. When you hear from family words that make you feel insulted, try to avoid the feeling of anger by suppressing it. Know that for a child to listen to your words, your relationship with him needs to be good. Learn ways to deal with your children and improve your relationship with them, and do not make them vulnerable to psychological problems. When you feel anger, keep away from your children — close yourself in your room and make wudu until your soul calms and finds tranquility, or drink water and seek refuge in Allah from the accursed Shaytan. Practice this in times of ease (without severe anger). We have a Toddler Guide — use it and read in it. Share with your children play and activities so the relationship with them is strengthened. You may need a week or two for them to become attuned to you. Don't forget the du'a, seeking help from Allah, and your daily Qur'an portion. Know that they are a trust with you, so bind yourself to keeping the trust as Allah loves. https://t.me/maktabatjeel A book has recently been added to the library — make use of it.